I started this journey because I needed to step out of my comfort zone. It scared me to move away to a new place, but something inside me compelled me to do it. I feared it, but it some ways it was exactly what I needed and I could feel that.
As I near the six month mark, I’m scared in a different way. I’m scared the novelty of the experience will wear off. I’m scared I won’t find a job for after this. I’m scared that I’ll grow in a way that distances me from the people I love, not only by geographical location, but also by interest. I’m scared that I won’t be able to stick it out to the end of my job in July. Or, I’m scared that I’ll stick it out, and love it too much to come back. I’m scared of disappointing people with the results of my project and with my decisions. I’m scared of disappointing myself.
So many contradictions. Six months ago when I made this decision, I had fear, but also an overwhelming feeling that this was the necessary next step in my life. I don’t have a sense yet of what will be my next step after this and that freaks me out. Part of me wants to go back to New England when this is over. Part of me deeply fears the regret of “settling down” – whatever that means, I don’t want it – and wants to run as far away from any stability as possible. I feel like a little kid trying to be a big kid – attracted to the sense of adventure, but kind of just want to go home. Maybe I’m just being nostalgic, but I’ve really enjoyed my time at home over the past week.
The good news is, in relation to the quote above, every choice scares me! I’m going to grow so much, no matter what I do!
Side note: I guess that’s another contradiction that goes along with being a 20-something; I’m a little lost and not sure what my future looks like, but at least I’m excited to do it and can recognize the growth opportunities. Reading back, this post sounds a touch “wah wah wah”, but it’s honest and that’s what I’m here to do.